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Arjun Rajagopalan's avatar

Wonderful essay, Ishita. I have always held that trees and the plant kingdom are the superior life forms. I absolutely loved your 10 Commandments; good thing that unlike in Moses' case, the originals were not written in stone - you could strike them out and rewrite! 😁

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Absolutely agreed, flora & funga are superior in every aspect - community, flourishing, relationships. I’ve been exploring these themes for long now and there’s so much to learn from them. ☺️

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Prisca Dera's avatar

You write beautifully well

Love how you shared your story on narratives. It's really deep

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Thank you Prisca! Means so much you stopped by and also shared your thoughts. Grateful 🙏

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Harkiran Kaur Brar's avatar

This piece was fab 😃

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Ishita Singh's avatar

🙏♥️

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Lisa Anderson Shaffer, LMFT's avatar

Beautiful and compelling piece, Ishita. Thank you for including me. I will see you out in the forest, being a tree sounds grand.

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Made my day. I will see you out in the forest. 🫶

Thank you for allowing me to feature your words.

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Lisa Anderson Shaffer, LMFT's avatar

🌲🌲🌲

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Scott Perry's avatar

Love this. Identity is indeed a many splendored thing and so much more than what we simply do to make ends meet. Thanks for sharing this reflections, Ishita.

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Thank you Scott for your kind words. I have noticed a lot of my work is leaning towards identity and self. Perhaps I am in the phase ever I’m going through reinventing myself and in that, I’m finding a lot of energy and purpose. 🤞

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One Brilliant Arc (OBA)'s avatar

“We are poets and dreamers, secret artists and midnight philosophers.” What you say here is so true! This is the true value and beauty of humanity. Hope for the world. 🖤

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Your Native Friend's avatar

This is so interesting! You are so interesting! I am glad I found you online!

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Bree Stilwell's avatar

Okay, one more thing ONLY! 😆 Almost immediately directed here after reading your essay. The universe abides.

https://open.substack.com/pub/thedancingboy/p/not-all-trees-are-for-leaning-against?r=18i7qw&utm_medium=ios

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Ishita Singh's avatar

I possible CANNOT thank you enough for sending me to Josh's post. What a wonderful piece. Thanks Bree for stumbling upon my newsletter & sharing your love so freely! Appreciate it so much. :)

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Bree Stilwell's avatar

Wild, right? I was pretty gobsmacked. Really glad you dug Josh’s piece too. So SO fricking good.

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Bree Stilwell's avatar

Golly, Ishita—what an essay. Where do I start? So many synchronicities!! For brevity, I’ll stick to two:

1. I am also a devoted hugger of trees, as well as a proud advocate of the practice (some take me up on it, more than some just think it’s cute). I’ve always been particularly drawn to, and identify with, those trees that have clearly lived through their own rough patches… my business logo is a photo I took of a white pine, damaged by fire, still growing on the banks of Lake Tahoe. You’ve got the vibe on that, I’m sure.

2. The whole freight train thing. As a creative entrepreneur coach/mentor, this gets my goat screaming!! I’m with you 💯, and love love LOVE your list of rewritten narratives. Kinship, period.

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Ishita Singh's avatar

BREE! Omg thank you so much for your lovely words. I can feel the energy through your comment.

Thanks for stopping by and reading this (errr..lengthy) essay. I admire you so much for sharing these synchronicities. Nothing like finding a person on the internet you can scream with together, amirite. <3

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Bree Stilwell's avatar

Ishita! You right!!

So glad you felt the love, and that it didn’t come off too sticky (I sometimes feel like I’m channeling my inner bey, getting so starstruck on amazing writing). Delighted to have found you… onward! 🧡✨

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Anvesha's avatar

Never felt so calm after reading a story, this was what I needed, thankyou!, love from deep heart, heart emoji! I know you don't need any other comments, you know what my heart is feeling right now, thanking you again!

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Anvesha, your words mean so much. If my writing can help even one person feel calm, my work as a writer is done. <3

So glad you chose to share with me about your feels. It's given me all the feels now. Thanks!

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Daniel A Detwiler Ph.D.'s avatar

Hi Ishiguro, your words and ideas are original, creative and challenging. What a great voice you are for me to learn from. Daniel

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Daniel, you're so kind to say that. I admire your generosity! :) Much love.

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

…lots of winning moments and philosophies in here…i of course landed on being a tree…i think it is valuable to see yourself in others as much as yourself…practice creative empathy…see life as living…there are worlds out there…endless worlds to live in…and they live right back in you…

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Ishita Singh's avatar

CansaFis! It’s always lovely to hear from you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me earlier and also for your words on the post.

See life as living, so true. I am going to sketch this out. 🌻

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Rick Lewis's avatar

This is fantastic Ishita. You are an example of narrative and context in the right hands. Thanks for introducing your work in WoP. Just beautiful.

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Thanks a lot for your kind words, Rick! I appreciate you taking the time and reading this post. :)

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christina fang's avatar

What an incredible essay! I really love the way you started this essay, setting up the context & narrative, and then illustrating beautiful examples of how the "truths" we are fed impact the way we see the world in a way that actually facilitates more harm. I love symbolism of becoming a tree. Something that grows just by being not by pushing. Thank you for sharing!

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Aw thanks Christina. This made my day. 💕

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Alexarian's avatar

This was the first blog post I read when I came across your Substack. Thought-provoking and introspective. It made me reflect on my own narrative, which I discovered a couple of years ago: The Baobabs

A song by Sammy Davis Jr. — I’ve Gotta Be Me

A quote by Matt Khan: "People can only meet you as deeply as they’ve met themselves."

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Alexarian's avatar

And the slow growth mindset from Matt D'Avella *

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Beata Bernina's avatar

Great piece, Ishita! Thank you.

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Thanks Beata 💕

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